friendster testimonials

i've been reading the testimonials that my friends did for me, and i can't help but smile. i didn't know that that's how they see me. i already know i'm brutally frank sometimes, but i didn't mean to hurt other people's feelings because of what i'm saying. if i know that the things that i say is somehow like hitting below the belt, i'm starting to shut up and after a while, i'll apologize to that person that i've offended. as much as possible, i don't want to have enemies. it won't give me peace of mind and it'll give me a hard time sleeping at night. i'd rather feel offended because i know i can defend myself but i can't bear the idea that i've hurt someone's feelings because of what i said.